Promise and follow through

1–2 yearsFamily ConnectionNo materials needed

Make small, simple promises to your child throughout your time together and follow through immediately. For example, say 'I will get your ball' and then get it right away. Or 'We will read a book after this' and then read together. Use simple words and keep the time between promise and action very short. Your child learns that your words match your actions.

Part of the Imprint developmental journey — personalized to your child.

Promise and follow through

How to Do This Activity

Make small, simple promises to your child throughout your time together and follow through immediately. For example, say 'I will get your ball' and then get it right away. Or 'We will read a book after this' and then read together. Use simple words and keep the time between promise and action very short. Your child learns that your words match your actions.

Why It Works

Following through on promises builds the foundation of trust. Adults who report high levels of mutual respect and trust with parents experience greater emotional closeness and 35% lower conflict rates, with mutual respect established in childhood predicting stronger adult relationships (Laursen & Collins, 2009). Consistent follow-through teaches your child that they can rely on you.

Tips for Parents

Only promise things you can do right away or very soon. Keep your language simple and clear. If something unexpected happens and you cannot follow through, acknowledge it simply. Say 'I said we would do that. Let's do it now' and follow through as soon as possible.

Materials Needed

None

Learning Methods

Language-Rich EnvironmentMontessori Practical Life Activities

Loved this activity? Let us do the planning for you.

Imprint personalizes every activity to your child — their interests, their stage, the traits they're building — so playtime is more fun and every moment counts.

Science-backed. Private by design. No spam.

Learn how Imprint works →