Calm redirection practice
0–6 monthsSuccess MindsetMaterials: Safe alternative toy or object
When your child reaches for something unsafe or off-limits, calmly say no and count to three. Then offer an acceptable alternative. This gentle pause between the limit and the alternative helps your child begin to shift attention. You are teaching them to tolerate a brief moment of not getting what they want.
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How to Do This Activity
When your child reaches for something unsafe or off-limits, calmly say no and count to three. Then offer an acceptable alternative. This gentle pause between the limit and the alternative helps your child begin to shift attention. You are teaching them to tolerate a brief moment of not getting what they want.
Why It Works
Gentle redirection with a brief pause helps infants begin to develop inhibitory control, a key component of self-regulation. Early self-regulation skills predict educational attainment and life success (Johnson et al., 2022). These small moments teach your child that limits can be followed by positive alternatives, building tolerance for delayed desires.
Tips for Parents
Keep your voice calm and matter-of-fact, not stern.
Count slowly to give your child time to process.
Choose an appealing alternative to offer after the pause.
Materials Needed
Safe alternative toy or object
Learning Methods
Repetition and RoutineResponsive Interaction
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