Share and switch play
3–4 yearsSuccess MindsetMaterials: Any divided set of toys or craft supplies (crayons and paper, blocks and cars, etc.)
Set up an activity where you and your child each have different materials that you need to share to complete a task. For example, you have the crayons and your child has the paper, or you have the blocks and your child has the cars. Practice asking for items, sharing, and trading. This makes cooperation necessary and natural.
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How to Do This Activity
Set up an activity where you and your child each have different materials that you need to share to complete a task. For example, you have the crayons and your child has the paper, or you have the blocks and your child has the cars. Practice asking for items, sharing, and trading. This makes cooperation necessary and natural.
Why It Works
Social skills instruction leads to significantly better performance on standardized achievement testing, and poor social skills in early grades can lead to literacy struggles (McClelland et al., 2013). Structured sharing practice during the 36-48 month sensitive period, when cooperative play emerges as the dominant mode, helps children develop the reciprocity understanding and negotiation skills essential for school success and peer relationships.
Tips for Parents
Model polite requesting: 'May I please use the red crayon when you're done?'
Praise specific cooperative behaviors: 'You handed me the block when I asked. That's helpful teamwork.'
Keep sessions brief to match the 8-12 minute attention span typical for this age.
Materials Needed
Any divided set of toys or craft supplies (crayons and paper, blocks and cars, etc.)
Learning Methods
Collaborative and Cooperative PlayStructured Learning ActivitiesProject-Based Learning
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