Comfort check-in game
2–3 yearsFamily ConnectionMaterials: Favorite toys
During playtime, create moments where your child can practice coming to you for comfort. Hide a favorite toy and when your child looks confused or frustrated, gently say "You can come here if you need help." When they approach you, offer a hug or reassuring words before helping them find the toy. This builds their trust that you are their safe haven when things feel hard.
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How to Do This Activity
During playtime, create moments where your child can practice coming to you for comfort. Hide a favorite toy and when your child looks confused or frustrated, gently say "You can come here if you need help." When they approach you, offer a hug or reassuring words before helping them find the toy. This builds their trust that you are their safe haven when things feel hard.
Why It Works
Secure attachment develops when children learn they can rely on parents as a safe haven during stress. Research shows that securely attached children are twice as likely to maintain close relationships with parents as adults compared to insecurely attached peers (Ainsworth et al., 1978). This activity creates safe opportunities for your child to practice seeking comfort, which strengthens their trust in you as a dependable source of support.
Tips for Parents
Let your child decide when they need comfort. Some children will come right away, others need more time to try on their own.
Keep your tone calm and inviting. This is not about making things hard, but about showing you are there when needed.
Celebrate when they come to you by saying "I'm glad you came to me" to reinforce that seeking comfort is good.
Materials Needed
Favorite toys
Learning Methods
Symbolic and Pretend PlaySongs, Stories, and RhymesInteractive Play-Based Learning
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