Lacing and threading
2–3 yearsSuccess MindsetMaterials: Thick string or shoelace
Items with large holes (large beads, rigatoni pasta, or cardboard with punched holes)
Provide a shoelace or thick string and items with large holes, like big beads, pasta, or cardboard shapes you've punched. Show your child how to thread one item, then let them continue. This is genuinely difficult for their developing fine motor skills, so expect fumbling and dropped items. That's exactly the point. Stay nearby and offer calm encouragement when they struggle, but let them work through the challenge themselves.
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How to Do This Activity
Provide a shoelace or thick string and items with large holes, like big beads, pasta, or cardboard shapes you've punched. Show your child how to thread one item, then let them continue. This is genuinely difficult for their developing fine motor skills, so expect fumbling and dropped items. That's exactly the point. Stay nearby and offer calm encouragement when they struggle, but let them work through the challenge themselves.
Why It Works
Learning skills that require repeated practice develops both components of grit: sustained effort and continued engagement with challenging activities. Studies show that grit predicts success independent of ability level (Duckworth et al., 2007). Fine motor challenges like threading provide natural opportunities for children to experience difficulty, persist, and eventually succeed through their own effort.
Tips for Parents
Tape one end of the string to make it stiffer and easier to thread through holes.
Comment on their persistence: 'Your fingers are working hard on this' or 'You're really concentrating.'
It's fine if they only thread a few items. The practice of trying is what matters, not the final product.
Materials Needed
Thick string or shoelace
Items with large holes (large beads, rigatoni pasta, or cardboard with punched holes)
Learning Methods
Interactive Play-Based LearningHands-On Sensory Activities
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