Before we go routine

6–12 monthsSuccess MindsetNo materials needed

Create a consistent sequence of actions before leaving the house, such as putting on shoes, getting a jacket, and waving to a favorite toy. Move through each step calmly and predictably. This routine creates multiple small waiting periods as your child anticipates the next step and the eventual departure, building tolerance for delayed gratification.

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Before we go routine

How to Do This Activity

Create a consistent sequence of actions before leaving the house, such as putting on shoes, getting a jacket, and waving to a favorite toy. Move through each step calmly and predictably. This routine creates multiple small waiting periods as your child anticipates the next step and the eventual departure, building tolerance for delayed gratification.

Why It Works

Predictable routines help infants develop expectations and learn to tolerate the waiting that comes with transitions. Repetition creates neural pathways and security. Research shows that consistent caregiving patterns support self-regulation development, which predicts academic achievement and better outcomes across the lifespan (Blair, C., & Diamond, A., 2008).

Tips for Parents

Use the same order of steps each time you leave the house. Narrate each step simply as you do it. Keep the routine short with just three to four steps.

Materials Needed

None

Learning Methods

Repetition and RoutineResponsive Interaction

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