Reach and receive
0–6 monthsSuccess MindsetMaterials: Colorful toy or soft book
Place your child on their back or supported sitting. Hold a colorful toy where they can see it. Wait for your child to reach toward it or make eye contact with you. Once they show interest, bring it closer for them to grasp. This teaches them their actions can bring what they want after a brief moment.
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How to Do This Activity
Place your child on their back or supported sitting. Hold a colorful toy where they can see it. Wait for your child to reach toward it or make eye contact with you. Once they show interest, bring it closer for them to grasp. This teaches them their actions can bring what they want after a brief moment.
Why It Works
Understanding cause and effect is fundamental to developing self-control. When infants learn their actions lead to outcomes, they begin building the cognitive control skills that support later delay of gratification (Mischel et al., 1988). This simple waiting game strengthens the connection between patience and reward.
Tips for Parents
Position the toy where your child can clearly see it.
Wait just two to three seconds for them to respond.
Celebrate their reach or gaze with encouragement before giving the toy.
Materials Needed
Colorful toy or soft book
Learning Methods
Repetition and RoutineResponsive Interaction
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